“My wife’s friend called off her wedding a week before the ceremony. She lived several hundred miles away for school but came back to her hometown two weeks before the wedding to make sure everything was lined up and have her bachelorette party. In the course of her visit, she came across an old boyfriend (who was also engaged) and things “sparked” up again. They agreed they should each leave their fiancés and give their relationship another shot.
Turns out, he didn’t keep up his end of the bargain, and she is still single today.” – u/GuessWhatIsInsideMeABC Studios
“My dad and his friends took a buddy by canoe to an island to get drunk the night before the wedding. He told them all he didn’t want to go through with it but couldn’t figure out how to get out of it. When he woke up in the morning, they had stranded him on the island, he missed the wedding, his buddies were branded as the jerks. Groom-to-be was relieved.
However, the groom was verified to be an idiot who made bad decisions. Submarined any hope for salvaging the relationship. That particular “flaw” in his personality was not going to change. All parties felt they dodged bullet I think.” – u/NitzelplickLehigh Valley Live
“I see a lot of bachelor and bachelorette parties in my line of work. I actually have a few of these memories.
The first that comes to mind was an interesting night where the bachelor party was happening at one bar and the bachelorette party was in the bar down the block. At the groom to be’s party I get a call for help from the place. It’s a tame security call. Just a couple getting it on in a bathroom. The bar wanted them booted. I find out the dude is the groom to be and the girl is just some random chick. The chick goes off on her own and now I’m with the groom outside. He’s drunk and almost uncontrollable. I am trying to find him a way home safe. His bros were all shitty and kept the party going without him. After a while, the bride to be and her gals come walking down the street. A couple people around chime in and tell her why I am there dealing with him. She breaks down and calls the wedding off right there. He ended up going to detox that night.” – u/Anti_Social
“Not at the bachelor party, but I traveled with my wife (then girlfriend) to a wedding she was in. At the rehearsal I told my wife there is something going on between the bride and the maid of honor. She laughed. Two weeks after the wedding the brides Facebook goes dark. The bride and maid of honor are now living together in another state. I still talk about how I called it within an hour of meeting them. Poor groom… super nice dude.” – u/aparis412
“A wedding came in from out of town, the bride/groom hadn’t had a stag/hen do so decided the night before that the men and woman would split up and each have their own party. The men had a small cocktail bar and the women took the restaurant.
I was meant to be working the main bar but got asked by a female colleague to cover the cocktail bar as the men were getting rowdy and making comments – no problem. Got in there and its just a group of old mates getting hammered, pretty standard stuff, until the stripper arrived. She did a full show, the groom has to remove her underwear with his teeth, had to lick cream off her nipples etc. All was well until the women found out and called off the wedding – shouting matches went on well into the early hours. The wedding did go ahead, but you could tell there was awkwardness in the air.” – u/8bitbenben
“Wedding Photographer here… Night before the wedding, all the bridal party got together at the hotel, partied, and drank a LOT. I show up the next morning 8am after a 2 hour drive to be told by the hotel receptionist, that there was not going to be a wedding.
Apparently a large fight broke out between the groomsman and bridesmaids. Money to pay the vendors was stolen. The ceremony was supposed to be at 11am that day. After about 2 minutes of WTF is going on here, nobody called and told me. I called the bride’s mother – and she stated that she was off to pick up the bride and groom, sit them down, and still try to have a wedding.
Fast forward a couple hours, the groom showed up drunk out of his mind around 10am, guests were already showing up, the bride finally showed around 11:30 – noon time, and there was a ceremony at 1pm. Yes – they still got married. The groom was drunk the whole day, the couple argued a ton, and the groom also felt up his mother during the Mother -Son dance.
Needless to say.. It was an eventful day.” – u/punknkat
“She was going to a friend of a friends bachelorette party, mainly for her friend who didn’t want to go solo.
Anyway, I knew they were going to a strip club and expected to hear all about those shenanigans. She text me when they were leaving, the bride had payed for two of the strippers to come back with them. They went back and the show continued, evidenced by pictures and blurry video of swinging stripper cock. Everyone seemed like they were having fun, but generally playing by the rules. Nothing that doesn’t go on at tons of bachelorette parties.
At some point things took a turn. She text me around 2AM and was like “so half these bitches are doing coke in the bathroom and the strippers joined in”. Then, things went the way they usually do with coke and sexually charged people. People started fucking. First it was them all giving the strippers blowjobs, then that turned into two of the girls having sex with the strippers. Which turned into the bride getting tag teamed by both the strippers.
There was no wedding.” – u/Slowjams
“Both parties happened same night same location as they didn’t trust each other. Bachelorette and her maid of honor snuck off mid party to go up stairs to a room they booked to have sex with some random people.
Don’t worry the bachelor was a scum too, at some point during their relationship he poked holes in condoms so shed get pregnant and stay.” – u/stuffedanimalfapInstagram
“Strip club manager here,
Funniest thing I’ve ever seen. 5 man bachelor party comes into work. Kinda tipsy and having a good time but not being disruptive. They are hanging out for a while and they are great, throwing money and overall being pleasant. At this point they have done nothing wrong. About 2 hours in, my front door flings open and in barge 4 very very drunk women. They storm right past security, make a beeline for the group and what I later learned was the bride, proceeds to beat the absolute fuck out of the groom. Like real domestic abuse type shit. Then 2 of the other ladies proceed to botch at than attack the best man and another guy. Me and my team bolt over to try and separate the clusterfuck that just transpired pulling the ladies off the guys who looked just as surprised as we were.
We drag them outside and the guys all follow out. The bride start going absolutely apeshit on the groom saying how she can’t believe he’d go to a strip club to see naked bitches before their wedding. The groom starts yelling saying it’s not a big deal etc. The maid of honor and best man (who were apparently married) also are having the same discussion…”Instagram
…The fun really gets turned to 11 when the quiet female (up to this point) walks up and slaps the dog shit out of the groom wondering why she wasnt good enough. Apparently they had dated years ago and she never got over him. Also apparently the bride did NOT know this information. Bridezilla goes OFF. Start beating the fuck out of quiet chick, like… attempted murder levels of violence. While groom, me and another security guy are trying to stop a murder in my parking lot, best man and maid of honor are still arguing. Once we separate bride and quiet chick, all we hear is best man scream fuck this! Walks over, tells groom he fucked the bride like 3 years ago at a party with the maid of honor and he didn’t want him to marry her.
Groom surprisingly is calm… turns to bride and says the wedding was off. She starts freaking out crying apologizing and begging as he walks in the club to pay his tab…
Craziest night at work ever..” – u/Bobolink911
” was two weeks away from getting married, ex went off with her friends for Bachelorette party two in the morning i get a email from the maid of honor it was supposed to be sent to her friends and my name was accidentally selected, the email contained a video of my bride to be sucking the male strippers dick. The next day we were supposed to finalize some plans when the bride to be and maid of honor showed up to pick me up i just pointed at the computer bride went pale then spent the next eight hours attempting to explain what was going on, then it turned into a horrible mistake, i think at some point i passed out because i had started drinking right after seeing the video and just didnt stop.” – u/allonan2361Facebook
“Military idiot in my old unit had a bachelor party at a (very nasty) stripclub and fucked a stripper(hooker?) in front of his buddies in the private room. Of coarse word about this spread like wildfire in the unit and confirmed by the dozen of guys that were in the room when it happened, military spouses gossip and talk and soon the wife found out and they were divorced less than a month later.
I’m still friends with the groom on FB and he is still a idiot.” – u/atomiccheesegod
“Just was at a bachelorette party where one of the bridesmaids got drunk and was happily telling the bride, “Oh I’m so glad you and Fiance worked things out after he cheated, I know he didn’t mean it, you two are perfect together.”
The bride didn’t know…” – u/fuqmook
“Three of us guys were best friends since high school – we’ll say it’s Billy (guy getting married), Joel (one of the 3 amigos), Martin (me). Fast forward to about age 23 – Billy is getting married to this girl who was probably 19 at the time, they started dating when she was still in high school… but I digress. Night of the bachelor party, somehow Joel and I are alone with the bride-to-be. She’s got a few drinks in her, and decides to seriously proposition Joel for sex. We thought long and hard about telling Billy, but given previous experiences (we told him about an Ex doing some shady shit and he proceeded to stop talking to us until they broke up), we decided against it. They did get married… 6 months in he got home early from work and walked in on her in the middle of taking her clothes off in the living room with another dude. While they might have just been starting an innocent game of naked twister, he decided to divorce her.” – u/tcsacBustle
“I wasn’t there, but my dad cancelled his wedding about a week before. I was like seven years old and devastated. She was a nice woman, I really liked her, but I had no idea why he called it off. A few months ago (I was 13) I asked and he told me that she was really nosy and also secretive for herself. She went to therapy once a week and never told him why. She also stayed home “sick” just to check through his laptop to see if he had anything he didn’t want her to see. He had already divorced in the past and he just decided he didn’t want to live this way for the rest of his life, so he called off the wedding.” – u/pandajuice17
“Went to Vegas for a bachelor party and his mother decided to tag along (she was financing it all anyways). She convinced the groom to sleep with a porn star we later found out she paid to exclusively come sleep with him so she could guilt him into telling the bride thus stopping the wedding. It worked.” – u/InitialJeep